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Thursday, June 28, 2018

George Cotton, Jr.: "The Dandy of Them All"

By Kelli Huggins, Education Coordinator


“The dandy of them all. Dude. Wears tight pants, and is a politician. Thinks of running for mayor. Is a ladies’ man and a great hand for society. Is keeping one eye on Albany. Good bank account. Got a good appetite, and likes pie. Never took a drink and don’t know the taste of tobacco. Flies never light on him even in the summer time.”- Elmira Telegram, January 1888

This text and the photograph above were my introduction to George H. Cotton, Jr. Needless, to say, I was intrigued. The evidence I had in hand presented a man brimming with personality. I had to know more. 

George Cotton, Jr. was born in Elmira on March 25, 1860. At age 12, he began working in a mill on Fifth Street. After a few years there, the young man found employment in the trucking industry. By 1884, Cotton’s younger brother Samuel joined in on a trucking partnership, G.H. Cotton, Jr., and Brother.

Cotton, as the quote at the start mentions, also had political ambitions. A Democrat, Cotton served as the chair of the Chemung County Democratic committee, representative of the Fifth Ward, and postmaster. 

Cotton was loved by many in the city and was known for his gregarious personality. In 1891, the Daily Gazette and Free Press decided to run a fun little article in which they paired local figures with well-known literary quotes. This was what they chose for Cotton:
“Joking decides great things
Stronglier and better oft than earnest can”

- John Milton

When friends surprised Cotton with a portrait of himself, “Mr. Cotton smiled at first and then turned aside to hide the tears of joy that coursed down his chubby cheeks.”

George Cotton, Jr. standing in front of one of his company's wagons
A permanent bachelor and ladies' man, Cotton attracted lots of admirers. One such incident was humorously recounted in the Elmira Telegram on September 13, 1891. Cotton’s company regularly moved stage pieces and props to and from theaters for traveling shows. Hired to move the belongings of a female snake charmer performing at the Inter-State Fair, Cotton found himself on the receiving end of the lady’s affections. She requested to share the front seat with him and the pair were reportedly quite the sight on their way to the train station.

On March 7, 1897, Cotton died at 72 Pennsylvania Avenue, the family home where he was born almost 37 years earlier. A few days earlier, he came down with what he thought was a cold. That quickly became pneumonia, however, and coupled with his heart troubles, it proved fatal. He never married, but was survived by his mother, brother, and four sisters.   

In my search to better know George Cotton, one story stuck out as representative of the man I see in the photo. In 1892, George Cotton lost his Irish setter, Jack. He ran an ad for the dog’s return and a local boy found and returned the dog. However, people from around the city saw the ad and “Mr. Cotton was besieged all day by all sorts of people with all sorts of dogs.” Clearly, Cotton was a popular guy who people cared about. On the other hand, maybe it was just the promise of the reward he offered…

Monday, December 14, 2015

Elmira’s Most Eligible Bachelors (1888 Edition)

By Kelli Huggins, Education Coordinator

When I was doing research for “Seduction” our most recent installment of our History They Didn’t Teach You in School series, I found the most delightful Elmira Telegram newspaper article from 1888.  Now, it is no secret that late 19th century journalism is one of my strange passions; it’s brutal, hilarious, and descriptive in ways that reporting can’t be today.  And this piece, entitled “Pointers for the Girls” is about as good as it gets.

1888 was a leap year.  As the lore goes, during leap years, women could initiate a courtship or propose marriage to a man, which was the only reprieve from strictly held Victorian beliefs of courtship propriety.  Typically, single women could not address men without introduction. And don’t even think about something like riding in a closed carriage with a man who wasn’t a relative! 

As the Telegram staff wrote in the article, “For the first time in four years the dear, delightful darlings who have failed to hail the matrimonial chariot are privileged to drive a man into a corner and propose matrimony to him.  In this year they are give the heaven-born privilege of the men and can make love to whom they wist, providing however, that man is willing to wist.”  Elmira, it was reported, was “prolific in marriageable men” and the article highlighted the “choicest flowers in the matrimonial garden.”

The descriptions are hysterical and are clearly meant to be satirical.  For example, alderman Morris Gladke was described as the “handsomest man in Elmira. Got curly hair and a little mustache.  No flies on him.  Been spoken of as a mayoral candidate.  Devoted to his mother and would hate to leave her.  Afraid of girls anyway… Been sick lately.  Discreet lady nurse might get the inside track.”

Here are some of my other favorites:
David Hill
David Hill (the Governor of New York State): “May be president next year. Has no bad habits. Doesn’t chew tobacco, stay out nights, or go to dog fights. Is bald-headed but real smart, and would be a regular prize. Wife can keep a hired girl, and ride in the street cars. Got some money.”

Levi Little
Levi Little (Chief of Police): “ Good looking and six feet tall. Got a trotting horse and affectionate nature.  Would probably accept a satisfactory offer.  Isn’t afraid of the cars or good-looking girls… Can’t raise whiskers.”

George Cotton
George Cotton: “The dandy of them all.  Dude.  Wears tight pants, and is a politician. Thinks of running for mayor. Is a ladies’ man and a great hand for society… Got a good appetite, and likes pie.”

J.S. Root (Dentist): “Handsome young man… Strongest drink is buttermilk…Likes a joke and eats Frankforts.”

Mark Bennett
Mark Bennett (Journalist): “Writes poetry as a pastime. Little bit bald, but has a mustache. Color of seven cent sugar… Been as far away from home as Buffalo.”